Fellowship in Suffering

Have you ever met someone that you just "clicked" with? Someone whom you felt you could talk with, or just listen to, for hours on end? These people strike some chord in our hearts such that we feel an immediate connection and relation. I've found that in my life, these people share some common interest, passion or way of thinking that is very similar to my own yet made distinct by their own unique life experiences and challenges. The cake of deep intimate fellowship is formed from similitude and it is made sweet by the icing of differences, not the other way around.

God calls us into fellowship with His Son. There are many ways by which to pursue fellowship with God: prayer, fasting, study, obedience, etc. These are disciplines by which to nourish the connection to the divine so that we might, at a heart level, be transformed by the renewing of our mind to conform to the image of Christ. This likeness is the heart of fellowship, but there is something to be said for likeness of experience as a well. After all, a true likeness in heart should ultimately produce similar experiences.

The apostles talk of sharing in the sufferings of Christ. When you've been abandoned by your friends, lost worldly possessions and status, been wrongly accused and hated, beaten down and mocked, betrayed with kisses and abused, when justice turns away from you, it can be very hard to see God through the disaster. The darkness into which you have been thrust can be very dark indeed and even the very sense of the presence of God can be like the sun which moves behind the clouds. There is nothing left then but to sit among the ashes and mourn.

Then something very surprising happens. You look over and you see Jesus sitting beside you among the ashes. It should not be surprising, after all where else would Jesus be? The profound sense of kinship that floods into the heart cannot be expressed by words. It is the overflow of joy that transformed Job's pain into worship.

In the Bhagavad Gita, Krishna, the avatar of the Supreme Being in the Hindu mythos, claims that that the greatest of his worshipers are not the suffering but the wise. Christ, by contrast, seems to extend a special brotherhood to those who suffer for his sake, or perhaps he makes no distinction at all between the faithfully suffering and the wise. As G.K. Chesterton notes, it is revealing to mediate on the differences between the way Christ is portrayed by Christians versus the way other gods are portrayed, especially the Eastern ones. Those gods are well-fed, smiling, content, and serene with closed eyes. Christ is fully revealed on the cross in his greatest moment and finest hour. He is thin and bloody with a sad and tortured expression in his face and his eyes are wide open fixed on the prize. What a sublime paradox that the greatest joy is found not in following the serene gods but in joining the tortured one on His cross.